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"Gimme 5" Tips for Encouraging Yourself and 5 (more) for Encouraging Others

  • Writer: Alexis Smith
    Alexis Smith
  • Sep 12, 2023
  • 2 min read
Today is a special day on the calendar! It's my daughter's birthday AND (so fittingly) it's a National Day of Encouragement. As I get more comfortable sharing my personal testimony online, I'll share more about her entry to this world and why it makes total sense to me that today would be set aside as a day dedicated to spreading positivity and uplifting one another.

In a world where challenges can be plenty, encouragement is like a gentle breeze that helps us keep moving forward. Whether you're looking for ways to stay encouraged yourself or seeking to authentically encourage others, Safe Space Strategies has you covered with these helpful tips.

5 Tips to Stay Encouraged:

1. Cultivate Self-Compassion: It all begins with you. Practice self-compassion by acknowledging your efforts, regardless of the outcomes. Remember, it's okay to have setbacks; they're stepping stones to success.


2. Set Small, Achievable Goals: Break down your larger goals into smaller, more manageable steps. Celebrate each small victory along the way; they're the building blocks of your journey.


3. Surround Yourself with Positivity: Seek out positive influences in your life, whether it's through books, podcasts, or uplifting social media accounts. Surrounding yourself with positivity can fuel your spirit.


4. Lean on Your Support Network: Don't hesitate to reach out to friends and family when you need a boost. Sharing your feelings with loved ones can provide emotional support and encouragement.


5. Practice Gratitude Daily: Cultivate an attitude of gratitude. Each day, reflect on the things you're thankful for, no matter how small they may seem. Gratitude can shift your perspective and uplift your spirits.


5 Tips for Authentic Encouragement:

1. Listen Actively: When someone is sharing their thoughts or concerns, be an active listener. Show genuine interest and empathy by offering your full attention.


2. Offer Specific Praise: When providing encouragement, be specific about what you admire or appreciate. Generic compliments may not have the same impact as personalized praise.


3. Share Personal Experiences: Relate to the person by sharing your own experiences, especially if you've faced similar challenges. This can create a sense of camaraderie and understanding.


4. Be Sincere and Authentic: Authenticity is key. Be sincere in your encouragement; avoid condescending or patronizing tones. People can sense when encouragement is genuine.


5. Respect Their Journey: Remember that everyone's journey is unique. Avoid giving unsolicited advice or solutions. Instead, offer support and encouragement without judgment.



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National Day of Encouragement reminds us of the power we hold to uplift ourselves and those around us. Whether it's through self-compassion, setting achievable goals, or practicing authentic encouragement, we all have the capacity to make a positive impact. So, let's celebrate this day by spreading kindness, inspiration, and support. Together, we can create a world where encouragement thrives.


Remember, encouragement isn't just a one-day affair; it's a way of life. Let's make every day an opportunity to inspire and uplift each other.


Happy Birthday to my "Baby Girl" and National Day of Encouragement to us all.

 
 
 

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